Episode aired 10/09/2011 Part 1
Not putting blame on any specific person, but I am having a hard time with understanding the whole Fairytale thing. I have rewritten this blog several times, because every time I read it, seems like it is a negative piece. I have come to the conclusion that just like all my other blogs, I have to just call it like I see it and unfortunately, a lot of what I saw on this episode was hard to watch or understand.
I’m guessing that if you were not born into money and if you are not a millionaire for 20+ years, you will never really be able to understand the Kardashians’. It doesn’t mean that some things cannot be discussed. It doesn’t take a Rocket Scientist to figure out that Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries are accustomed to totally different lifestyles. I do believe they love each other, however, overshadows of family approval and oohs and aahs of the viewers, seem to be more important to Kim and especially Kim’s mom Kris Jenner.
Khloe’s negative remarks to Kris H. were very personal. It’s not her business to ask him personal questions. If Kim wanted to know about Kris H.’s ex-girlfriends or whether he has had STD’s, that would be between Kim and Kris H. It has nothing to do with Khloe, Kourtney and Kim’s businesses and affairs they share, so therefore, Khloe is definitely out of line for asking him if he had STDs.
I know that Kris H. can be a little outspoken but I think a lot of people are blaming that on his age. However, it is the type of person he seems to be. He is comical/laid back and the Kardashians are a serious family and they take the smallest things to heart. It just seems that if it doesn’t have anything to do with business which would include photo shoots, fashion, and money, the Kardashians don’t know how to function. I take that back, the Kardashian Women, don’t know how to function. The men (Bruce, Scott, Rob, Lamar and Mason) seem to know how to have a good time and not take life so seriously.
I can’t believe that Kris Jenner didn’t get cars for anyone in Kris Humphries’s family. That right there, is a very selfish act, I know people say that Kris H. is not paying for the wedding, but Kim isn’t either. Hello, we heard that “E” and other endorsers were paying for most if not all of the wedding. For the record, I thought it was shameful that Kris Humphries family wasn’t included at all, in the arrangements. I mean, his sister is a bridesmaid, and we haven’t seen or heard anything about her. Hopefully we will see her in part two, doing more than just walking down the aisle. This is 2011 and “Traditions” went out of the window a long time ago. It seems like this business arrangement or movie production was more important than the how the lives of the people involved will change with what is supposed to be two people joining together in a marriage out of love, trust, honor, etc.
I feel so bad for Kris Humphries, because I know a lot of people say that weddings are for the bride’s but if a groom wants to be involved, he shouldn’t be ignored. Kris Jenner on the other hand is looking out for her daughter, which is natural, but she is showing that she could care less about Kris Humphries, her future son-in-law’s input to this wedding because his taste isn’t as lavish as the Kardashians are known to be.
Rob plays musical houses, because of his eating habits that he seems to be blaming on Lamar. He leaves and goes to stay with Kourtney and Scott to gather better eating habits. Nobody said it better than Scott, that Rob’s eating problem are his own. Rob gets busted by Kourtney eating Tacos, but bravo to Rob for not snitching on Scott. Then Rob moves back in with Lamar and Khloe, because he couldn’t take the healthy lifestyle of Courtney and Scott. I guess he was missing Lamar walking around the house passing gas!
Here we go again! At the tuxedo fitting, I don’t think it was very nice of Kris Humphries to tease Rob about his weight, if anything he should help him. Humiliating him in front of a lot of people is not the right way. Kim showed up to the tuxedo fitting and Kris H. was pissed because he feels Kim is very controlling. He said “I don’t go to the dress fittings”. So true, but I guess Ms. Kim has a little lack of confidence in her hubby or maybe her mom did and Kim had to act out Kris Jenner’s plans.
When I was watching I was thinking something, but I wouldn’t say it and then Kris H. comes right out with it. “You guys should just marry each other” to Kim and her mother. OMG! I’m glad somebody said it. Kris J. was talking about the arrangements to Kim like Kris H. was not in the room. Kim says that she has been planning this wedding since she was a little girl, but at that age you really don’t think of what the groom would want. However, this is the real world and Kris H. should have been included in far more of the arrangements than we witnessed.
Watching Kourtney and Khloe toast Kim and Kris H. at the engagement party was painful. There was NOTHING sincere about the toast. All I could think was “please go to Vegas”, or better yet, live together for 1 year before saying “I Do”! How do you insult the people you are toasting? That is ridiculous and it made all of them look rude! Kim was noticeably hurt, but again she doesn’t say a word. Not to mention she had no idea that Khloe was trash talking Kris H., to somebody on his intentions with Kim. Kris overheard it and he told her “How dare you question someone’s marriage”. I completely see where Kris H. is coming from because if the shoe was on the other foot and someone questioned Lamar, Khloe would have been livid!
Happy to see that Kim was realizing how she has left Kris H. out of the loop. Kris H. told Kim about the conversation that he had with Khloe talking crap about him on his intentions being pure with Kim. Kris H. is feeling that he has to fall in love with four women instead of just Kim. I really believe Kim loves Kris H. because he has shown her another side of life and that life is being a little more laid back and not taking life so seriously. However, if Kim loves Kris H. that is all that matters, the Kardashian’s actions say he needs to change to accommodate them as well and that is wrong. Especially, Scott telling him to watch what he says about the women and to the women. Why should Kris H. have to change the way he is? Obviously Kim, loves who he is, so that is all that matters. A mutual respect with all parties involved is the one thing that needs to be implemented with this merger….yes I said merger!
For the first time, Kim really went in on Khloe for questioning Kris Humphries’s motives for her. I was really shocked because Kim is usually “oh by the way” about the little fights. I’m not saying it is all Khloe and I am not saying it is all Kris H. I am saying that there is an issues that someone isn’t telling, and because we don’t know the full story it looks ugly.
Opposites are known to attract, but when that opposite has to attract to the family too, that becomes a problem. This marriage is doomed before it even gets started, because there seems to be a lot of pre-marriage things they didn’t talk about (where they will live, dogs sleeping in the beds, toothpaste on the mirror). It almost seems like Kim and Kris H. don’t know each other at all. So putting this wedding together in such a short amount of time, and discussing children, seems like the marriage is forced with an agenda. Good or bad, what that agenda is will come to light! I mean, NEVER once have we heard Kris Humphries say “my Mom, Dad, and Sister adore Kim”….I’m just saying. Whatever the case, I think Kim and Kris H. look good together, however, I think they would look even better if the other Kardashians’ would take a step back and let them figure it out and live their lives on their own. I wish them the best! I hope Part 2 is much more inviting then Part 1.
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